In a nutshell, it is an education from an early age that “do not bother others.”
People are creatures that help each other, and I think it is natural to ask others for help.
However, while helping each other is considered a virtue in Japan, they hate to bother others.
I’m Japanese but I’m not sure.
Perhaps it is an education that give and take is good and should not be a one-sided taker for both society and individuals? You might also say that.
In this way, Japanese people educate their children without being properly explained, so at some point like me, it may be a question.